When Things Change

People always say that change is good. I find this to be completely false. Sure changing your hairstyle or clothes is good. Changing something important like the communication in a relationship is well, bad. We can't control everything that happens in our life or in the life of someone else that affects us. Maybe they see someone from their past and suddenly, it's like it went from summer to winter. Before, you were perfectly happy with how things were going. Then out of the blue lightning strikes and what you knew before is now gone. After awhile we start to get use to how things are, you're comfortable. But is that the problem? We get too comfortable with how things are that when change happens we have no idea how to handle it. Society has a focus on change though. It wants to expand and grow, change to fit the future. But somethings just shouldn't change. Like a simple conversation between two people. Where they laugh and joke and just enjoy each other. Why does that need to change? Because one little thing popped up and now one person is focused on something else. You're probably catching on now, yes something did happen in my life. And frankly I don't like it. Our past can haunt us, but there can be good things to remember about it. A walk down memory lane is never a bad thing. But letting it consume you and change how you treat someone else (in this case, me) then it . . well it hurts. Exes are exes and they are that for a reason. I'm fine with someone having a past, I do too. But when you don't show interest in what we have anymore, I get lost. Change sucks.